Beyond "Be a Man", Redefining Masculinity
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Today’s edition combines warm tales, creative ideas and the rich culture of our people. There is a lot of goodness to focus on and happy endings in these great stories! 😊✨
Wherein, uplifting stories of people helping one another in crisis and cutting-edge breakthroughs that aid in improving living conditions in the society today, we seek out the optimism around us. Wondering where all the good news is about some persons doing great things or perhaps local legends and the works they are doing in the society? We have those and more! 🎉🙌
So, buckle up and start this.
💬 Navigating Perspectives
Rajat Mittal, a software engineer and author, is on a mission to reshape societal expectations of men and boys in India. Through his book ZardoZi, his newsletter Boyish, and his various initiatives, Mittal challenges rigid stereotypes and advocates for a more inclusive and emotionally open understanding of masculinity. His work highlights the detrimental effects of traditional norms on men's well-being and promotes a world where boys are free to express themselves without fear of judgement.
The Weight of Expectations
Mittal's book, ZardoZi, tells the story of Zi, a young boy struggling to find his voice amidst a chorus of societal expectations. This narrative mirrors Mittal's own experiences, where his interests in dance, art, and poetry were often met with the directive to "be a man." He recognised how boys are often pushed towards specific paths, like STEM or finance, while their passions and emotions are suppressed. This resonated with suicide statistics that show a disproportionate number of male suicides due to pent-up emotions that they are unable to express.
A Breath of Fresh Air
To combat these limiting stereotypes, Mittal created the newsletter Boyish, a platform that encourages male vulnerability and challenges the "alpha male" paradigm. He notes that men often face criticism for sharing their emotional side, and Boyish aims to change this by creating a safe space for men to explore their feelings and identities without fear of ridicule. He underscores that men are more than economic engines or emotionless beings.
Gender Equality for All
Mittal's commitment to positive change extends beyond men's issues. He founded Menstrupedia in 2012, an initiative that has educated millions of girls across India about menstruation and puberty, combating stigma and promoting open conversations about women's health. Additionally, his project 'She Can You Can' shines a light on iconic Indian women, ensuring they are seen as role models for future generations.
A New Vision
Mittal actively applies his beliefs to raising his own son. He encourages his son's creativity and self-expression, allowing him to explore activities traditionally seen as feminine without reprimand. Mittal emphasises the importance of fathers being present and engaged in their sons' lives, fostering emotional connection and breaking down generational barriers. He believes that we are in a "golden era of fatherhood" in India, and he hopes to inspire other fathers to embrace this new role.
Conclusion
Rajat Mittal's work is a powerful call for a more compassionate and inclusive world for boys and men. By challenging societal norms, promoting emotional vulnerability, and advocating for gender equality, he is paving the way for a future where every "Zi" can pursue their dreams and express themselves authentically, free from the constraints of outdated stereotypes.
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🗣️ Stories that Matter
Sujata Agarwal, from Odisha, turned her love for gardening into "Bloom in Hydro," a successful hydroponics and micro greens farming venture. She also defied expectations by growing saffron in a climate-controlled room. She now earns around Rs 20 lakh annually and trains others in sustainable farming techniques.
Jitendra Gehlawat, diagnosed with 80% cerebral palsy as a child, defied doctors who said he'd never walk. Inspired by his labourer father, he dreams of passing the UPSC exam. He receives free coaching from Constable Ajay Grewal, who recognises his tenacity. Despite physical challenges, Jitendra perseveres, determined to achieve his dream.
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Srishti Dabas overcame societal bias against girls and her parents' separation to achieve AIR 6 in the UPSC Civil Services Exam. Inspired by her mother's struggles, she balanced a full-time job at RBI with rigorous studies. A Kathak dancer and academic achiever, she encourages aspirants to aim high with self-confidence.
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In the final words of Today’s India, we trust that you have been encouraged by the beautiful stories that have lifted the country up. Be it the startups or old practices to more sociable stories making sure that no one is left behind, there is always a sense of progress and oneness.
As we take these strides, let’s make sure we promote kindness, creativity, and teamwork. And till the next time; may you take pleasure in bringing happiness and inquisitiveness in your day to day activities!
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